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Why Naturist Pen Names Has Some Naturists All Hot and Bothered

Why can't naturists use pen names? In a recent blog I addressed six practical things that naturists may do to be more proactive in promoting naturism. The first idea was to come out of the closet' as a naturist to trustworthy people family, friends and co-workers. It's interesting that this suggestion is often met with a good amount of lively conversation. It is after all a sensitive issue. It takes time to reach the point of taking your clothes off in public, and it takes even additional time getting to the point of telling others about one's experience and alternative to practice social nudity. Among the fascinating responses we received (about the recommendation to come out as a naturist) was criticism of our FKK organization's leaders because of their use of pen names. The criticism, that was posted as public comment, was skeptical and judgmental (odd really coming from fellow naturists), suggesting that FKK leaders are hypocritical to propose that naturists come out', while they themselves use pen names. The criticism was so far off balance that it deserves some attention, so that new nudies, who may encounter such extremist approaches, don't shy away from naturism and the delight of sharing our naked culture with others. Let us begin by noting the recommendation to come out as a naturist was balanced with sufficient advice. We encouraged that the coming out be exercised with care aimed at trustworthy folks in your lifetime and with the understanding that there are some people you may never tell your nudie experiences to. This is because, for many people, it can have http://nudistsplace.com/first-time-nudist-stories/history-of-tanning/ - in the work place for example. Use of pen names in national media is one kind of care that a number of people choose for all types of legitimate reasons. Actually it is a standard practice in many settings other than merely nudism. Naturist pen names The thought of coming out is under no circumstances hypocritical with respect to the use of pen names on the web or in the world media at large. There's an obvious and tremendous common sense difference between coming out to trustworthy individuals within your real life family, close social groups and professional network vs. coming out willy-nilly to the entire world through online social media, movie, television, etc. Graduating from the usage of a pen name to the use of one's real name can be a very big decision with far reaching consequences, which for some individuals involves many complex factors. Needless to say, many actors and writers use pen names their whole lives. They even use their nom de plume when recommending for specific causes. Yet it seems like only in the nudie world do we've a handful of tyrannical naturists who vehemently and vocally argue that all their hard work will not mean much because they do not attach their birth name. Some rationales that nudie leaders who decide to come out to family and friends, but never to the world at large, include things like: stalkers, bullying, public slander, job related sensitivities, social or extended family complications and the list continues on. The kind of immature, one-size-fits-all doctrine, that accuses naturist leaders of hypocrisy for the usage of pen names is thoughtless indeed. It smacks of radical fanaticism and certainly that's nothing that our nudie movement needs in the hyper body-phobic culture we live in. Actually caring, loving approaches toward fellow naturists about when and how a naturist comes out, using pen names (or NOT) etc., means respecting other's basic right for privacy. Arrogantly chiding some people for not measuring around an artificially contrived and fanatically enforced set of rules makes zero sense. That's the surest means to set the wrong model to new nudies and may (understandably) scare them away. I mean after all, what these critics of FKK are really indicating by their thoughtless comments is that anyone who wants to become involved in naturism and desires to blog or urge for it within the media, is a hypocrite if they aren't willing or capable to disclose to the whole world all their private information? At FKK we do not strive to set such callous expectations of others. The utilization of pen names by some FKK leaders rather than by others is the FKK manner of saying it's all about the love!' We usually do not expect folks to stop trying their privacy or personal liberty so that you can become a nudie if they don't freely choose to achieve this. Furthermore, the FKK leaders cannot be accused of hiding as they are physically present at public occasions, tell people their real names, make no accurate attempt to hide their identity and they use the names consistently so that folks understand who's liable for what. Hence, the usage of a pen name, or not, by FKK leaders is exceptionally consistent with our most important core values and in no way hypocritical within my viewpoint. In conclusion, let's expect that most nudies value each other (nudist leader or not) enough to enable one another the common courtesy to be as open or unobtrusive as they choose about their choice to practice naturism. They should be enabled to flourish in an environment that enables them to progress to whatever extent of coming out' that they're comfortable with in http://x-topless.com/pins/there-are-a-lot-of-closet-nudists-out-there/ and own way without being judged because of their options. Young Naturists & Nudists America Tags: nudist community Class: Nudist Site About the Author (Author Profile) We are Steve and Susanne, leaders of the FKK Upstate New York Chapter. We appreciate the freedom, rest, and healing power of naturism, and are interested in sharing our experiences with others. Please visit our Facebook page facebook.com/FKKupstateny to get acquainted or join in any of our activities.